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And while I was never really good enough to do more than play as a replacement and make drinks, for most of my 90s and 00s in Brooklyn, I had a queer Asian center to my daily life, which meant so much to me. I met the friends who saw me through those years-especially those who became my gay Asian mah jong group. At their best, they were like a party you could drop into and run into at least three old friends, and maybe make one or two new ones. I prefer this, to be honest-the queer community I need has never shared a gender. Carrie Nation and The Excelsior resembled small town bars back then as they were usually mixed in terms of clientele and not too crowded. That said, I don’t know how else to describe the bars I miss in my old neighborhood in Brooklyn except as my local queer bars and maybe that’s enough. And a real community center isn’t going to ask people to leave if they can’t pay for a drink. For many, they rightly represent histories of addiction and abuse that prevent a simpler relationship. If they are your community center, they are filling in for whatever you might have if you had a different government.
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These bars are not community centers except when they were. That was one of the first gay bars in the country where you could stand on the street and see who was inside.
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I think of the gay men who used to sit in the big glass windows at the Twin Peaks Tavern in San Francisco (long nicknamed the Glass Coffin) when I would walk by on my way to work in 1991, brave in a way I never guessed then. I couldn’t call these “safe spaces,” as they were never so very safe, and we knew it. I eventually understood each bar name to be, at least possibly, that owner’s attempt at a clever disguise that had stood the test of time-or hoped to. Because maybe even a joke would have been too much, for someone who couldn’t take a joke about being queer. The Bar in New York City, Feathers in New Jersey, or ‘Bout Time 2 in Austin, well, they belong to Could Be Anything, which is just a plain disguise. Literary was its own category-how many lesbian bars are called Rubyfruit Jungle? Apocryphal stories link the name of the Stonewall Inn to the lesbian memoir, The Stone Wall, by Mary Casal. Double Entendre Real Specific would be The Stud, in San Francisco, or The End Up, also there, or My Sister’s Room. The second was Double Entendre But Vague, like The Underground, in Portland, Maine, where I grew up, or The Abbey, in Los Angeles. The first category was Address Only, like the 520 in Iowa City. In the 1990s, as I first started going to find community in what we called gay bars then, I developed a theory of their names. The Kevin Aviance story could be Season 3 of Pose. And how that is exactly what happened next. “Hello, I’m Kevin Aviance, House of Aviance, and I’ve moved to New York to take over.” I nodded as if agreeing. The midtown establishments are walkable from MARTA but the others are not.One of my favorite memories of working at Tunnel Bar in New York City in 1991 is when a striking Black queen walked in off the street and shook my hand as if I owned the place. If you have a particular vibe/crowd your looking for let me know and I'll give you a recommendation.Īs far as getting around to the various bars, Uber will be your best bet. Thats just a brief over-view as there are more to choose from. Woofs, the gay sports bar, is also nearby in Lindbergh.
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Heretic along with the Eagle (located in south midtown) are traditionally leather bars. Those are much more club-like in atmosphere. Continue north onto Cheshire and that's where you'll find Jungle and Heretic. Burkhart's will be similar to Blake's crowd-wise. Headed north on Piedmont you hit Ansley Mall, which houses Burkhart's and several smaller gay bars. You also have several LGBT-oriented restaurant/bars in the area including, 10th & Piedmont, Henry's, Joe's, and Einstein's. Bulldogs is a couple blocks away and skews towards a black clientele. At the center of it all, 10th and Peachtree, you'll have TEN and Blake's. There is not much in the way of nightlife downtown, most of it will be located just to the north in Midtown. In the back it lists the location of all the places you need to know and whatever events are going on that week. Check out David Atlanta like another poster mentioned.